Spoiling ourselves

When we spoil another, we show in some unique way that they are special and that the union we share is worth honoring. We give them more love and attention.

Spoiling is a loving form of nurturing and pampering.

It seems strange to write about spoiling ourselves, but it simply means giving yourself treats and special attention. Not everyone has a partner in his or her life and during parts of our adulthood, we can be quite alone.

Be that as it may, many of the loving gestures we assign to a romance or friendship can be enjoyed whether we are single or in a relationship. If you love flowers, then buy some. Grab a box of your favorite chocolates or indulge in a cozy night at home watching your favorite movie. Walk along the beach and soak in the sunset and twinkling seas. Run a hot bath, add your oils and petals, light the candles, and enjoy!

No one has to miss out, as long as they are prepared to fill their own love bucket. Naturally, most of us wish for that special partner. Nevertheless, if that person is not available, full your own bucket.

In spoiling ourselves, we are showing self-love. Honestly, not all experiences require a partner. Therefore, it is easy to be fulfilled in this area and to make your life richer.

We can engage in the gift of giving. These kind deeds make our family and friends feel loved and special. Often, our actions have a surprise element, and this makes it extra special. Roses for Mum, special nibbles for Dad, a surprise gift for a friend, and a special night out for your son and his wife are fine examples.

Shower yourself and others with love and you will be part of a special way of showing how exceptional we are.